All of My Interviews

Thank you!

I absolutely loved everyone's participation in these interviews and if you want to do one still let me know! Every interview was like a snowflake, totally different than the one before or even after it. All of them resembled the people they came from. I was glad for all the help in doing these. Most of them took me by surprise and kept me on my toes. I learned so many things about these people and myself by doing this interview project. 

All of the different ways people view sex is so interesting and exciting. I hope people will read our messages over and this blog and see how different they were and maybe open their minds into trying new things or finding things they will never do. I want them to look back and think of how they were comfortable with some one random about their sex life. I knew I wasn't the only one who thought and wanted to talk about these things. I'll have to do another poll or something involving peoples opinions.

All in all I think sex is viewed so differently from different kinds of people, but some ideas are common.I wonder what if sex wasn't a taboo and it was a normal lifestyle where people thought and talked about it like they were playing sports? How weird would that be? It wasn't weird to the Romans or what ever. A college teacher of mine told me a weird story, about Romans and Chickens...I'll save that for the next post.

Details At Its Finest

I LOVE details about juicy situations!

If I had to choose an interview that was my favorite, this interview would be my top 3. She was so comfortable in telling me all of these personal things. Some of these things I've never even tried, but will definitely try! Being comfortable and confident in yourself is so attractive, so kudos to you girl. You'll know this is yours when you read it! :))

Are you comfortable talking about your sex life?

1. Yes, with close friends and my boyfriend
Favorite part of sex?

2. Receiving/Giving oral & when my boyfriend first sticks his penis inside me. It's the most exciting part feeling how far you stretch in seconds and feel completely filled.
Do you have any fetishes or fantasies?

3. Fetishes- I like to be blindfolded and to also blindfold my boyfriend. Just the pleasure of not knowing what is going to happen next. I also love eating Nutella and Jet Puff Marshmallow Cream off my boyfriend's penis. Also fun to place a donut around my boyfriend's penis when he is soft and eat my way around it, then give him a blow job. Fantasies- It's corny but just having sex in strange places. The dressing rooms at the mall, in a hospital, in an amusement park. Just anywhere out of the ordinary.
How do you feel after you cum?

4. I feel completely paralyzed from the waist down. My thighs just shiver and I feel tingly from the waist down. Just simply do not want to move.
Have you been in any fucked up sex situations?

5. Many unfortunately. Older guys always think they can just try and practically rape you now a days. Before I met my boyfriend 2 1/2 years ago. I was at a "friend's" apartment and two guys really thought I was going to be down for them to run a train on me. They pinned me down and I fought my way back up and left.
Tell me about a memorable sex memory

6. All of my most memorable sex moments are with my boyfriend because I love him. Sex with someone you are in love with is just by far the best feeling in the world. He is the only person that has made me cum. I guess the most memorable would be when we first started dating and we were messing around. Making out and rubbing our bodies together, we took off each others clothes and he put his penis inside of me in the missionary position and started pounding me. I was moving my hips back and forth to meet his pace and he just stopped looked into my eyes and said "Do not do anything, I just want to make love to you and feel myself inside your pussy" Then he started making out with me and I just came right then. The first time I ever came and the first time I didn't have to do literally anything.

Guy From The West

Making someone cry after sex, that's fucked up.

Now we're kind of getting somewhere with fetishes. We can only take baby steps. I feel like people deep down inside have a few fetishes they like during sex, but don't know if they're partner will be accepting of it. Well never fear all you have to do is ask and if they get offended then that's their problem. He like leggings and stockings, and when he gets older he'll probably be into gag balls and whips..:)




Are you comfortable talking about your sex life? 
Yea I'm fairly comfy haha 
Favorite part of sex?
My favorite part is pleasing her if she is pleased than so am I and my job is complete. 
Do you have fetishes or fantasies?
Yea I like stockings, leggings, any of that lace shit turns me on haha not really a fetish but that shit goes. 
How do you feel after climax/cum?
After I climax I feel like a load has been lifted off my shoulders sex is a great stress reliever. I feel like a natural high and pretty good if I did my job. 
Any fucked up sex situations? 
Hmmm this chick tried to slide the condom off before,
Tell me about a great, weird or bad sexual memory.
 I've made someone cry during sex a few times hahaha



Whats this for girl lol you doing some nympho research?

New Pope Elected!

I bet you thought this post was about you, don't you, don't you......

• Not all of these interviews were super sexual and gave a bunch of detail. This interview was actually pretty interesting because its very short and to the point and I enjoy that. I also enjoy the person who did this for me, total beauty from high school.  I use to think this guy was so innocent. I appreciate this post because I find it delicate, but its also kind of cute.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  Questions:

  Are you comfortable talking about your sex life?
  Favorite part of sex?
  Do you have any fetishes or fantasies?
  How do you feel after you cum?
  Have you been in any fucked up sex situations?
  Tell me about a memorable sex memory

  
  

  
  

  Depends on whos asking. Favorite part of sex is the feelings you get before, after and during sex. haven't found a fetish yet, but as a fantasy would be to go to a foreign country and have sex with a stranger.
  
• after cumming i feel good, of course. its like relief of stress in a way. dont think ive been in any fucked up sex situations. A memorable sex memory would be my first time being drunk and having sex. It seemed to be funner, but when you're too drunk its not fun. if youre drunk and you have sex before bed, i think it prevents hangovers from happening....  haha i hope these work haha

So cliche, but..

I started a Facebook page. 

Why you ask? because my teacher suggested it. I'm going to try and do something creative with it and make it more organized than my blog.  So if you have any ideas, tips, suggestions of what I should put on my FB page feel free to comment and tell me what you think I should do!

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Just-Reaching-Climax/354469517999241

Is Naked Always Honest?

I am a very big fan of tattoos.  I remember being younger I would always think there had to be meaning behind every tattoo I would get. Why I had this mind set, I'm not so sure. Maybe it was because when these things were permanent to semi permanent on my body. My body was my temple and I would take care of it and not put anything dumb on it.

 Tattoos and piercings are a way for people to show their creativity or to follow certain trends, either way they make that person unique. I think tattoo artists are so amazing to create such beautiful art on the body of a human. A tattoo artist can look at a picture and transform it into personal artwork. It just amazes me how there are so many different artist out there and they all have different styles. Also there are horrible artist, but that's with everything. What interests me about tattoo is how everyone is different like a snowflake. 

Even though I don't any tattoos myself right now there are some amazing artist that I follow and enjoy their work: 

www.artworkrebels.com - This is an awesome website and blog of a group of artists located on NW 23rd in portland, Oregon. These guys are so talented and have a strong following. His art work has an "oriental/ asian" appearance to them. He does a lot of full body artwork, with ships and waves on the back side of men'd bodies.

childthepeacemaker.wordpress.com - Now this guy is so awesome! Childthepeacemaker is one of my favorite artist that I just started following his work. My friends just had a tattoo done by him and I completely fell in love. The detail in his work is so amazing and his Instagram is pretty awesome to follow as well. Of course if you would want a tattoo by him you'd have to book like 5 months in advance because he is THAT guy!

www.nikkohurtado.com - Nikko is so sick at doing portraits its not even funny. I follow him on Instagram and he has an awesome fan base. He always goes across country and travels to different continents to do expos along with meet and greets. Hes another artist you would have to book in advance to get a tattoo by him.

Jenna, Lily, Pinky, Mandingo, Lex Steel

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Pictures of Naked Men and Women Blowing Each Other

Yes! To be totally blunt about it. 

I was searching for a topic to talk about for this post and what came up was pictures of naked men and women of ALL different age groups. I was in class so of course I wasn't going to keep looking up that topic. People in class would of probably thought I was absolutely inappropriate to search up what looked like porn on the school internet. It was hilarious to me, but I felt kind of bad because a classmate sitting right next to me is doing her blog on something important in the world, rather than talking about sex. Even though I may have skimmed through those pictures on my own time, I just didn't think it was appropriate in class. Writing this has gotten me to think about my next post: People and Porn.......

Mission Aborted?

Abortion!

A big taboo that I use to believe so deeply about. I use to be so against abortion because you're killing an innocent child or fetus, whatever you want to call it. I just couldn't bare the thought of anyone even myself killing a child in my stomach because of a mistake I made. After a few friends having abortions and friends having kids, I changed my whole outlook of abortions. When times are rough and you can barely take care of yourself and you're pregnant thinking about abortion, I totally support it because if you can't take care of yourself then you shouldn't bring a child into this world.. I can see why people are against it and there are people for it. Its a part of life nowadays and it gives the people the right for freedom in choosing having a child or not. Now if someone abuses it then that's not having the freedom to chose, its just fucking stupid and irresponsible. This is still a hard topic for some people and there will always be people for and against abortion. Whats your view?

Being With Three Makes You Lonely

Just like the movies


I would always watch movies and see the really hot guy with all these women and he is super lonely. I think that's a load of shit! A handsome man can find a women who will hold him down and treat him right. They just want a model girlfriend who will let him be with other women at the same time as being with them. My friend here is so handsome and is completely honest, but something lies behind his honesty besides being lonely. He is a sex fiend so here is his interview.






Questions:
Are you comfortable talking about your sex life?
Yes I'm comfortable talking about sex
Favorite part of sex?
Favorite part of sex is watching my partner reach her climax multiple times as I penetrate her with every stroke, lick and so on
Do you have any fetishes or fantasies?
No fetishes but a fantasy for me will be 10 thick yellow bone/Asian islander woman a lot of chocolate, whip cream and tons of ice in a bounce house ha you get the picture 
How do you feel after you cum?
How I feel after I cum is relieved on top of more horny feigning for more sex and a blunt ha
Fucked situation when you have sex for hours go to sleep and wake up in a cold giant puddle of blood in your bed yikes..
Have you been in any fucked up sex situations?
He didn't get a chance to answer this BUT, I have a story of when I first met him. I went over there to hang out with him. I was super young and did what I wanted. When I got over to his house there was a girl and one other guy there. I was confused, I thought it was going to be me and him. Nope, I was wrong, because a little after I got over there he went into another room with that girl and closed the door.....That left me and that guy out there alone together....ANYWAYS they came out a little while later. Her hair was a mess and she was walking weird, or that could of been the way she walks. I would always see her at school and look at her like I knew she got fucked...it was funny to me anyway..
Tell me about a memorable sex memory
A memorable sex memory having a 3some with two woman and staying hard for hours after I busted like 5 times already ha. Seems like yesterday

Miss Mary

Miss Mary found happiness in her pot of lovely green herb.

I've read and heard different stories of why marijuana became illegal and I feel like they're all the governments doing to control the US. The funny thing is the "human" mind always wants to do what we're not suppose to do, or at least mine does anyways. Nowadays there are people who will fight for the right to smoke marijuana for recreational use and for medical use. So why do people think marijuana is terrible gateway drug? Some downsides of weed:

• Sleepiness
• Lazy
• Munchies
• Red Eyes
• And it may harm your lungs (but not as much as legal cigarettes)

Some upsides of weed:

• Calm & Relaxing
• Helps you laugh
• Lets your imagination run wild
• Sleep-aid 
• Helps joint pains
• Concentrate
• Makes music sound 100x better
• and the list could go on...

Of course this post is probably bias, but its my post and this is how I feel. I believe the weed isn't what makes weed "bad' I think its the person who consumes or smokes it that makes it bad. I have some extremely successful people I know who have smoked weed for more than 50 years and they have came so far. I also know people who let it consume their whole lives and its mostly them, not the weed. In my opinion some of the most creative and influential ideas have came from people who have smoked pot. I don't see it as a gateway drug of any kind. People who want to do other drugs will do them if they smoke weed or not. (We'll get into other drugs on another post!) I think that if more people smoked weed the world would be more enjoyable and more peaceful. Imagine if the president of the US smoked a joint with other leaders of the world?  I could imagine them smoking together and getting along, maybe sharing funny stories or laughing over retarded laws and wars! 

Last, if your so opposed to weed and you've never smoked it, then fucking try it. At least once and then you can decide whether you like it or not. Just don't go along in life not liking something or someone because you "heard" it was wrong. Try things at least once...unless its murder.

Wine it, Dine it, and Grind it

Even though it's not Friday, keep it classy.

This right here is classy. A man just wants to have some wine and fun with two lovely ladies, is that so hard to ask? For all you ladies who love intimate passionate sex, here's your guy. All you one night stand lovers...keep enjoying that somewhere else.

Are you comfortable talking about your sex life?
1. Yes. 

Favorite part of sex?
2. Foreplay and "doggystyle".

Do you have any fetishes or fantasies?
3. Threesome- 2 women and I after an evening of drinking wine.

How do you feel after you cum?
4. Fantastic and weathered.

Have you been in any fucked up sex situations?
5. Yes. I was once caught having sex in a car by police. No arrests were issued.

Tell me about a memorable sex memory
6. Having sex multiple times in one night with my last girlfriend for a duration of 6 hours or so. Greatest sexual experience of my life.

Its like pulling teeth with some people to get more detail. I am a girl, I live for the little details in life. I want to know everything!

Why is foreplay your favorite part?
 Its my favorite part because of the intimacy aspect. its when you can begin to feel the energy between two bodies begin to build. Kissing lips, necks, breasts, thighs  faces, all over a woman's body is one of my favorite things to do, and having her do the same to me is even better. Even when were not kissing and were touching each others body or hair or getting rough and throwing each upon beds and walls and counter-tops  etc, its amazing simply from a spiritual point of view because its as if in that moment you can see into their soul. But all this can only occur if you are with someone you absolutely for sure know you want to experience all those things with,such as a true lover. random hook-ups are nothing like this.

Me-Alright. Well why is doggy your favorite position?
"Doggystyle"...well to keep it honest I like asses. I love feeling them, giving them the rambunctious slap, seeing them bounce. I think large, fine butts are a symbol of sexuality and beauty. So with the doggy position it's like I get to show how much I appreciate that woman for their beauty and sexuality. Plus from personal experience I have found that women love the dominating aspect of it, as do I.

Sex with someone your compatible with vs Sex with stranger

When I'm climaxing, I feel a rush, or surge more so of what seems to be nearly a million different emotions coming at me from all different angles. For one I feel a sense of euphoria. Like nothing can cause this moment in time to be terrible. Nothing can stop me from feeling this sense of happiness that I have finally achieved. I feel warm, but cold. I feel like someone shot me with high grade drugs from Columbia right in my chest or something. It's an incredible high to have. On the other hand every high has to come down at some point. So when that moment arrives I need time to check back into reality. If I'm with someone I care about then I want to be as near to them as possible. I want to feel out heartbeats pounding I want to hear our heavy breathing, and pretty much cuddle. But if it's with someone I'm just having sex with its the complete opposite. I immediately distance myself in all ways. I shut off completely towards them and I make it a point for them to do the same with me. I don't want to feel those warm feelings with them because I don't feel they are worth it. It was simply a moment in time with them. we had sex and I'm done. It's like physically saying "Here is my all, take it. I'm yours." But when you randomly hook up it's like saying "Look...Ima get this nut and well yeah." It's really not as appealing as most people bolster it up to be. Cold as that may sound it's just how I personally am in that situation.

Anything else you wanna tell me?
Now...as to why I was having sex in a car. Well an ex-gf of mine and I wanted to have sex. But we couldn't because at the time she lived with her mom and I with my grandma. So hooking up was not too easy of a task. But she lived near rocky butte (very typical for car hook ups yes, I know). So one night I drove up there and we hung out for a minute then we went back to the car and had sex. Well right after I came I saw headlights slowly approach the car. I couldn't make out who it was because of the windows being fogged up. But they moved to the side of the car. Then I heard the tapping of the windows. So I scrambled to cover myself and opened it up. Lo and behold the cop was there staring at us. I said "Hey I'm sorry, were gonna leave ASAP." His reply was "Get the fuck out of here." So that's what I did. Luckily he was young so he probably understood the situation and was lenient on letting us go. However it didn't stop us from going back up there multiple times following that experience. Because well...we wanted to have sex and if we were going to that was going to be the place to do it, for that time being.

Small Towns and Small Minds

When do you realize that not everyone has the same mind set?

I lived in a small town called Tootle, Washington about two years ago. Tootle was a bit different than home, but it was very beautiful. The population was a few hundred..including live stock.

 

I worked with a guy who made me realize not all guys like girl on girl "action". I should remember  his name because his words have stayed with me ever since. I play out the whole scenario between us out in my head all the time. I was at work one day and I was talking about going home to see all my friends and family, when we came up on the subject of lesbians. He looked at me and said "You don't believe in that right?" I was so shocked I started laughing and I asked him if he was serious. Let me tell you he was beyond serious. He went out on this whole schpeel of how two people of the same sex shouldn't be together because it was unholy. He also said he wouldn't want to see two guys or girls kissing in public because it would make him sick. I knew there were people like this but I hadn't ever met one. When he told me this it took all that I had not to punch that mother fucker square in the face. 

I asked him why he thought it was so wrong and he told me because he is christian and its not right in the bible. This whole situation pissed me off because I'm not a fan of small minded Christians and who the fuck is he to think certain people can be together. If I was back home I would of hit him in his throat, but I worked and lived down the street from him. It made me realize that there are some sheltered kids out there with small minded parents. Him saying this kind of changed who I was at that point, not saying I was a lesbian and now I'm straight or anything. It just made me pay closer attention to people and how they feel about certain "Taboos" not everyone is accepting of life.